Navigating relationships can be complex journey unless you have a ‘secret code’. And this secret code is the practical application of astrological principles. Your and your loved one’s nature is linked to the individual astrological signs, especially the Birth Moon sign. Each zodiac sign carries its own set of traits, strengths, and challenges that shape the way you interact and connect with others. Let’s use astrological principles for improving love relationships.
From the fiery Aries to the dreamy Pisces, let’s focus on their ‘make or break’ tendencies which control the love dynamics. These following analyses are for the Birth Moon sign. In case your ascendant sign is as strong as the birth Moon sign, (use the Ashtakvarga to determine this), then you can merge the two readings.
Birth Moon is in Aries sign, Mesh rashi
You are too impulsive and being in a relationship requires some level of stability. You try to impress your partner but after the first step you seem to lose interest. You need a partner who can manage your level of spontaneity and aggression. You always try to dominate your partner, pressurise them to do what you want and this is a turn off. You cannot bear criticism but you expect your partner to follow you without question. You feel insecure if you feel that your partner is dominating you and immediately want to get out. Your partner might feel stressed out keeping up with your energy. If you change this mindset, your relationships will improve in the long run.
Birth Moon is in Taurus sign, Vrushabh rashi
You are traditional at heart. You have a very clear image of how your partner should be and do not settle for anything else. You like going out with your friends but in doing this you often ignore your partner. You need your freedom and do not compromise on this. Eventually your partner is left feeling alone at home while you enjoy an active social life. But you rarely take your partner’s genuine complaints seriously. Your overriding need is tradition and stability in your partner and feel insecure if this is denied. As you often tend to belittle and ignore your partner, this is the one thing which leads to heartbreak for both of you.
Birth Moon in Gemini, Mithun rashi
You are a complex mind. You pressurise your partner to contribute more on the emotional level but you try to remain emotionally aloof. You are generally insecure about your partner, not quite sure about their love for you. Your image is of an outgoing lively hyper active person and not everyone likes their partner to be so continuously on the move. You tend to lie with a straight face and with time this turns into insincerity. You want to be involved in every little thing in your partner’s life. And if they do not allow this, you start suspecting them of all sorts of nonsense. You want to always be in touch, be in communication with your partner and this is not practical. You overthink everything and ultimately this leads to break ups. So try to give your partner their space, else they will leave you.
Birth Moon is in Cancer sign Karka rashi
You do not trust easily. You first test your partner in your own way. Your past relationship experiences is generally bittersweet so you are not confident about putting your faith in someone. But in case you find someone worthy of your confidence then you are a loyal and a loving partner. But you tend to make your partner feel guilty about everything and all the time. You dramatise your disappointments in your relationships to such an extent that your partner has no option but to surrender. And you do this even when you are at fault. Eventually this suffocates your partner and leads to break ups. You are also not sure if your partner loves you sufficiently and this distrust contributes to the end of your relationships. You feel intensely, love your partner but are scared to open up and speak. You pretend to be insensitive when in fact you crave expressions of love. You confuse your partner. Try to overcome your need for constant assurances of love from your partner and learn to appreciate them for their love.
Birth Moon is in Leo sign, Simha rashi
You are too regal for a relationship. Your personal ego, pride and selfishness often drives your partners away. You do not feel comfortable with another person, ie you cannot bring yourself to be normal around your partner. It is like you are always on a stage, pretending. You do search for love but you miss the real one who is sitting right next to you. You do not like opening up a dialogue with your partner. You tend to give them orders and if they do not listen you use cutting words which hurt. You try to act superior. And as you grow older you become insecure. You are scared of being ignored by your partner and then you become even more unbearable. Try to share the spotlight in your relationship, so that you and your partner both can be happier together.
Birth Moon is in Virgo sign Kanya rashi
You are highly analytical and think all the time. You want a perfect partner and will wait patiently for them to magically appear. You fail to realise that this is unrealistic. You cannot accept flaws in your partner and also cannot see the flaws in yourself. You set impossibly high standards for your partner and when they fail you become rigid and blame them. Yet you are internally shy and do not express what you really want. You are scared of being judged for what you really want. Paradoxically you are afraid that your wishes will come true. So you try to project your wishes/ ideas on your partner. So that it seems that it was the partner’s idea. You keep changing your partners in search for the ‘perfect one’. This never happens and finally you are left alone. Try to change your expectations and behaviour by even a tiny bit, it will help both of you.
Birth Moon is in Libra sign, Tula rashi
You are a bit scared of getting into steady relationships. But you want a partner around to keep you company and to reassure you when things go wrong. You love new experiences and want to enjoy life. You want someone who thinks and behaves like you do. You are often compare your present relationship to your past ones. This stops you from actively enjoying the current moment. You do not openly express yourself, instead you try to subtly manipulate your partner to do what you want. You might pretend to not know how to do something and make your partner to do it for you. You are terrified of not being able to do something properly and your mistakes getting caught. This insecurity leads to arguments and break ups. You are either a hopeless romantic or a pragmatic unromantic person. Thus not being able to find a balance in relationships is the biggest reason for a Libra to choose to break up.
Birth Moon is in Scorpio sign Vrushchik rashi
You have a complicated mind, prone to overthinking. Possessive, passionate, ruthless and you can also be manipulative. This mindset destroys your relationships. Being unpredictable and using threats to get things your way does not lead to a stable partnership. If your partner does not behave as you tell them, you stop communicating and then break up. You never open up to your partner but you expect them to tell you everything. You want instant and complete loyalty from them, but you do not commit yourself. You are internally scared of being judged, insulted, humiliated or betrayed in love so you behave like this. But this exact behaviour leads to rejection by the partner, pain and break ups. Try to you analyse yourself and mindfully change your mindset to be successful in love.
Birth Moon is in Sagittarius sign Dhanu rashi
You are fun to be with. You like adventure and want your partner to share your activities. If your partner is a stay at home then you would prefer to break up. You do not like your partner to be dependant on you or demand your attention as this feels suffocating to you. You do not like talking about the past and prefer making plans for the future. If your partner tries to do something which you do not like then you will rake up past issues to make him feel guilty. You try to push your partner on the back foot this way you avoid sharing your real self. You are highly optimistic and want to wait for the perfect partner which does not really happen in practical life. Try to change yourself and also involve your partner in your activities so that you are both happy together.
Birth Moon is in Capricorn sign Makar rashi
You are too busy to fall in love or get into a serious relationship. You love your work, your social circle and your personal time far too much. You think you are defined by your successes and if you fail your partner will look down at you. You are especially into money, investments and financial security. You are practical, responsible etc but do not really want ‘love’. You basically want someone who is around you when you need something but otherwise you do not bother. You think you know more than your partner. You never listen to what they want and try to dominate them. Systemically, with time, your partner becomes essentially dependant on you and your view of life. And gradually the relationship become toxic for both. If you want a fair and balanced relationship with your partner then you have to work on this aspect of your personality.
Birth Moon is in Aquarius sign Kumbh rashi
Your speech and behaviour can be like a knife. Especially when you are in a bad mood, you can be very sarcastic with your partner. You are kind at heart but cannot bring this kindness out in your interpersonal relationships. You are afraid of opening yourself up to your partner. You feel that doing so will affect your public image. Also you do not change. You may apologise if you really feel that you are wrong, but you cannot change your behaviour patterns. You want to be free to do what you want. Freedom is essential to you and due to this you are afraid to commit yourself to someone in a relationship. You are unable to differentiate between your public and private behaviour and this is the root of the problem. Try to understand this fundamental trait and work on it so that you can improve your love relationship.
Birth Moon is in Pisces sign Meen rashi
You live in your own world and do not feel the urge to get into a relationship in the first place. You are non judgemental, resilient and easy going. You are helpful, kind and all that is good, but you run away at the first sign of trouble. You are at ease with a partner as dreamy as you are. You rarely get angry, but jealousy is your weak point. Also you cannot bear being criticised or misunderstood. This is because you rarely think evil for others. If you feel that you have hurt your partner, then too, you disappear from their life. If you are upset with your partner, you do not communicate. You do not give your partner a chance to talk to you. You remain silent until your partner has no option to give you what you want. You have to work on these traits to improve your relationship so that you can your love can have a happy life together.
Astrology provides a powerful lens through which we gain deeper insights into the human mind. Everything that we see is within our Minds. That is why the birth Moon sign is more important when evaluating relationships. If we can use our unique qualities and capitalise on our inherent strengths we can be more successful in life. Learn to use astrology for more meaningful relationships and a happier life.
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