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Why do Your Relationships Change?

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Why do Your Relationships Change?

How is it possible that something which starts with such high hopes sometimes ends up in a tragedy and so dramatically? Why does something which was so acceptable, turn into a heartbreaking painful thing? 

The reason is as always ‘Time’, Kaal, which brings the fructification of your karma. This energy of of Kaal is reflected in your horoscope. The birth horoscope gives the possible events in this life and the changing Mahadashas and the changing transits of the planets in the skies give the timing of these events. Jyotish is the study of Kaal. 

So every person you meet in this life is because the energies of your horoscope has allowed him access to your personality. Every interaction is because of the energy of your horoscope. And as the horoscope changes, the relationship also changes. When you get into a relationship with someone, it is because at that time your energies resonate. You two affect each other via your horoscopes. Each relationship is linked to one house of the horoscope.

  • 1st house – Is you yourself
  • 2nd house – close family members
  • 3rd house – siblings, neighbours, extended family members, office teammates
  • 4th house – mother, generally maternal side of your family, anyone whom you think belongs to your ‘homeland’
  • 5th house – children, students
  • 6th house – enemies, debtors, servants
  • 7th house – legal partners of all sorts
  • 8th house – in-laws
  • 9th house – the Guru, teachers who teach you higher studies, if born in the day-time then father
  • 10th house – if born in night then father, boss, social superiors
  • 11th house – friends, people in the like minded groups
  • 12th house – spirits who can access you in your dream states.

For eg  – if we are to analyse the relationship between you and your friend, then we will analyse the 11th house first. Friendships are governed by the 11th house. So your friend’s 11th house has an effect on you. And your 11th house has a simultaneous effect on him.

Suppose you have an auspicious 11th house in your birth horoscope. It has powerful planets, good aspects etc, so you attract good and useful people into your friend circle. Both you and your friends generally benefit by this relationship. The energies move in a positive feedback loop and there is auspiciousness all around.

But, there will come a Dasha period or a transit sequence in your life where the auspiciousness  of your 11th house’s will be briefly lowered. This is when when you should be careful of your friends. Now, for this brief time, people with a relatively negative 11th house will have access to your energy. They will enter your life as ‘friends’ through your weakened 11th house and use your energy. Also your current friends will also get a chance to absorb more energy from you.

So now your stressed out 11th house will draw on the power of its birth position. And these new friends drain this birth power of your 11th to gain themselves. They will gain by their friendship with you and give you negativity in return. As their relatively negative 11th house energy starts causing problems for you. 

Thankfully these draining type friendships will be short lived. These people will be able to attach to you only till your 11th house is suffering in the unfavourable transit. In this time you will face losses and pain from this aspect of your life, this cannot be avoided. But if you are aware of what is happening, you can reduce the effect by doing the puja, mantra, daan and by intelligent behavioural changes. 

And as soon as the negative transit influence on your 11th house changes and the inherent birth level positivity comes up again these draining friendships will break. Depending on the power of your birth Moon, you might feel bad or confused temporarily but ultimately it will all be for your good.

This is applicable to all the relationships in your life. The Dasha and the transits are how you make sense of the changing relationships in life.

Everything changes, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. But it always changes, so use the principles of Jyotish, learn Astrology systematically so that you can capitalise on your good times and remain careful during your bad times. 

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Dr.Tejaswini Arvind Patil

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12 responses to “Why do Your Relationships Change?”

  1. Sujith Nayak Avatar
    Sujith Nayak

    I guess there is much more to this. Sometimes even though our transit and dasha would be favorable, other person’s dasha or transit might not be favorable for the relationship.

    In the end it all boils down to something that we cannot comprehend and should consider as our Prarabdha.

    With all of the transit and dasha, we might also exercise our tiny bit of free will, so I believe it is an interplay of many factors which ultimately no Astrologer can predict. I had a similar experience and I can vouch that most of the Astrologers cannot predict, if the relationship stays or wanes.

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    1. Tejaswini Avatar
      Tejaswini

      Hi there

      http://psychologicallyastrology.com/2019/08/21/start-learning-astrology-systematically/

      https://psychologicallyastrology.com/2018/12/14/booked-an-astrology-session-read-this/

      predicting divorces is possible.
      i suggest mastering the kaalchakra dasha, for the predicting timing most accurately.

      Reply
  2. jinesh jinu Avatar
    jinesh jinu

    Madam,
    How will you place initiative or self efforts in this scenario.will the inevitable will take place when the correct dasha/antardasha/transits happen automatically?we will act accordingly during that time ?kindly educate.

    Regards

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    1. Tejaswini Avatar
      Tejaswini

      Hi there
      i wrote a post on free will and destiny/niyati somewhere.

      you always have free will.
      if you have a strong horoscope, there will be a choice between 10 good options and if you have a bad horosocpe then choice between 2 bad options. but you have to choose.
      choice is the foundation of human life, karma karmaphal etc.
      animals do not have a choice. we do.

      do your pujas, so that you improve your options.

      Reply
  3. riyasingh_0799 Avatar
    riyasingh_0799

    I was thinking of a way to make iChing reading less complicated. We can read the hexagram as a binary number (broken line as 0 and solid line as 1) and convert it to the coressponding decimal number mentally (it’s very easy). This will give strucure to the traditional, unordered table and make it easier to memorise the character and meaning corresponding to the hexagram. And there’s no need to refer to the text during the reading!

    Writing this here because my friends aren’t interested in all this.

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    1. Tejaswini Avatar
      Tejaswini

      Hi there
      you can do this if you find it easy.
      whatever works for you to remember..

      personally i refer to the book, whenever i do a reading, somehow reading the text again in the context of the question gives more perspectives.

      Reply
      1. riyasingh_0799 Avatar
        riyasingh_0799

        Yes, thanks for replying ma’am. I love hearing your perspective. 🙂

        On another topic, what are your thoughts about people exploiting the Himalayas in the name of business? I heard of new startup Mizuberg, which cans and sells water from Giri Ganga after playing mantras on loudspeakers over it, claiming to “activate chaitanya” in the water. I wonder is it right to desecrate the Himalays in the interest of those who might not even take the effort to charge their own drinking water with intention?

      2. Tejaswini Avatar
        Tejaswini

        Hi there
        if someone just says ‘Jai Devi Gange’ with intention and drinks water it will resonate with her energy.
        especially if it is in a copper pot/ lots/ kalash/ kumbh.
        or use reiki or any energy method to charge it..

        personally i think it is fine, if they are not polluting the river and have taken all legal permissions etc for the business set up.
        for those who cannot access this water directly from the river, the bottled water might be a good option.
        ‘reciting’ mantras over the Ganga water by playing electronic music over it is, to my mind, a bit funny. coz she herself is the greatest mantra in herself!
        but if they do want to do this as a publicity/ usp, they can engage a few brahmins to recite the mantra over their bottles. it will be more effective.

  4. Prashanth Srinivas Avatar
    Prashanth Srinivas

    Dear Tejaswini ma’am,

    I have been following you for the past 1.5 years and I have personally felt that whatever you have said over your articles is 100% right.

    Recently, I got two dreams one during mid-day afternoon where in i was walking alongside a forest in search of something. I was wearing dhoti and angavastram on top. But when I was exiting the forest, I suddenly remove my angavastram and found there are lots of white bubbles appearing in my front from chest to stomach area. I later found a green snake has been stinging me. Place: I had gone to Rameshwaram for Pitru Pooja and when I was sleeping before the puja I had dreamt of this. The dreams ending got disturbed by the Poojari who had come to my room and rang calling bell and I got up. Professionally also I have gone through a lot from 2022 onwards.

    Second one this early morning 4AM, I had some argument with my family member, and she in order to bring a bad name for me, jumps off from a place with heights. Fortunately nothing happens to her. I dont remember the argument but she has always hated me. So I start doing some Shiv Pooja and Shiva appears in that Pooja. Then when He appears she tried to make good with me and join that Pooja. Place: Oman in my bed room

    Lastly, this one is scarier – 5-6 years ago I dreamt of a young girl committing suicide right where I was sleeping. Place: Gurugram around 2AM I guess.

    As an expert you’re, I would like to understand spiritual significance of these three dreams as I have been think about these a lot. I am 39 years old unmarried, Dhanu Rasi (P.Shada) Kumbh Lagna male.

    Kindly help me with your insights and I would be very grateful. First two dreams were during Rahu Dasha Shani Bhukti while the third one was during when Rahu Dasha Rahu Bhukti was getting over and Rahu Dasha Guru Bhukti was starting.

    Thank you so much in advance ma’am. Kind regards

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    1. Tejaswini Avatar
      Tejaswini

      Hi there
      you have to find out for yourself what these dreams mean.
      light a small lamp/ deepak in front of your dev ghar before you go to bed. request the Jaatveda Agni to tell you the answers. if your intention is strong, u will get your answer in the next few days, via some sign or in dreams etc.

      Reply
  5. Vilu Fab Jump Avatar
    Vilu Fab Jump

    Dear Tejaswini,

    I heard that visiting Vaishno Devi on Budhashtami day will improve Mercury. I decided to try it, and to my great surprise it miraculously did! Can you kindly share any such remedy for planet Jupiter if you know any.

    After reading your article on Kendradhipati dosh(gemini lagna), I realized I had never proactively cared for my kendra houses and it had become an unseen hindrance and sorrow the past 5-10 years blocking progress in other areas which may not seem logically connected. For the first time in my life after visiting Vaishno devi on budhashtami day I got my 4th house home matters in two states sorted on a very practical level so that I can actually work effectively going forward and just for sukh shanti as they say.

    Many prayers, plenty of jaap, holy places did not get me the one desire of my life, but they got me general well being, peace and luck on a daily basis. However the remedy for Mercury worked very specifically and I badly need a remedy specific to Jupiter if there is one. Please email your blog subscribers when you have a donate button on your website. I have made donations to undeserving folks in so many ways it would be nice to donate to someone who I have learnt a lot from. Thank you

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    1. Tejaswini Avatar
      Tejaswini

      Hi there
      so how do you think you ‘randomly got’ the one final finishing touch type of remedy? it was coz you were doing all these ‘Many prayers, plenty of jaap, holy places’. it all builds up. each step is important, the 999th step and the 1st step both are equally important.

      ‘donate’ to me?

      Reply

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